clarification

I wanted to clarify myself on an earlier post about churches. I realize that a person should go to church because they love God, etc... BUT there is also a mandate of fellowship with other Christians. How can you fellowship when you are not a part of the group? It's hard to fit in where I am going right now. There are two particular couples that I have noticed there. I'm thinking one of them probably feels like me. They seem new as well. The other couple I've met twice, yet if I walk by them since, there's not a hello or anything. I really think that God is trying to tell me to move on. I wish I knew of a church that believed like me AND was fairly close to me. And not too large. And FRIENDLY.